3 easy steps to make men love you when he doesn’t know you exist.
Most of the articles on this site talk about confidence and giving some tips on how to make men love you, when you already know the person for some time. Now we all know that sometimes you fall in love with a man and he doesn’t even know your name.
It all depends on the situation of course, but if it’s someone you run in to on a regular basis and you think he could be someone interesting, but he never says anything, it’s up to you.
Once again this requires a basic confidence from your part. You can always find a reason to start a conversation with someone. One of the older tricks in the book is when you expect to run into him, carry some papers and accidently drop them when you’re close to him. If he doesn’t help you pick them up, never mind, he’s an asshole. If he does you can thank him and tell him your name. Don’t freeze up and don’t forget to smile.
Now that there is first contact you can move on to step 2. Find some excuses to talk to him, now that you know his name you can ask how he’s doing, show him that you’re interested in what he has got to say. The conversations will become more casual and you can tell him things about your life too, but not too much. You have to get him interested in you.
So you’re talking with him on a regular basis, now to push him over the edge you can move on to step 3. Talk with him less. This is the tricky part because if it’s someone interesting you would want to talk with him more. But if you start talking with him less, he will immediately notice this and will wonder why that’s the case. He will get more and more interested in you and will ask you to go do something together. This can be a drink or dinner or whatever. You’ve got him hooked now. Just play it cool and that’s the way you make men love you.

